It would really help if you told us what exactly do you share with them.
I don't understand these people even if you are negative about everything.
The only kind of talk that pisses me off is the kind when one of your friends starts doing something or read about it (like started working out, read about how you should live) and he immediately starts applying it to you and telling you how you should get better with this and that, even when they barely do it themselves.
Or the best kind of talk is when people assume you do nothing all day, so you should start doing what they do, because you don't do anything at home, right?
Or the kind when they unironically tell you that the stuff you do is a waste of time and that you should stop doing it and start doing what they do.
I sometimes wonder what kind of "friends" I have.