Perhaps your brain is unconsciously good at picking up cues. Maybe even though you consciously may find it exhausting or tiring, some part of you is getting an immense reward for helping these people.
No but I am that person. Its funny this >>9941
person this poster talks about sounds like me. I mean i dont tend to do go as far as ask for help from killing myself, i usually ask for some other advice because the person means a lot to me and i just want guidance and structure in my life. Ive gotten drunk intentionally so that my inhibitions would be down and i would reach out to people. But opposite/similar to you im never doing that again. I lost a potential lifelong friend because I tried to count on her for everything and depended on her way too much. Granted she definitely did stuff to hurt me but I can see clearly now which part of the blame is on who, and il never keep a friend like this. Theres a difference between sharing problems with friends and expecting them to be the solution.
i think what helps me get through my roughest times are the small things which is cliche, but knowing at least il be at peace sleeping. it makes going to bed something to look forward to. hope is important, faith is too which is similar whether its in god or yourself or an idea. knowing that every emotional trauma is an oppurtunity to become stronger and not be more broken. one thing il say is in relationships either both people are equal, or someone is better than the other. If you are the lesser one, the one that looks up to this person you probably cant help them. its unfortunate because its the people who look up to you who most want you to keep living, but i know people who look to me for help and they would try to comfort me and it made it worse. Also reminding people of their families or pets or friends might help them short term but not long term. Like this person sort of implied >>9997
living isnt an obligation for many, by saying things like that you are making it into one. This forces them to live, it doesnt make them want to live, they will be in the same place in a few days.