>>1371>I think penetration is something really secondary
it doesn't really work that way; things are
well, it seems like when guys do sex stuff they get all hyper-focussed on orgasming and PENNISS and whatever, but sex is more a state-of-being, like taking into account your situation in its entirety, with who is where and what's touching your or not touching you in different places, like the "thing that sets you off" can be a fan that turns and sends a light breeze across your chest at just the right moment.
obviously clitoris stuff has a stronger multiplying effect, but it's not goin' do anything on its own any more than just being penetrated.
as for the rest of your post, can't really answer because no sexing under anything but weed/alcohol. from the former, though, know that mind-altering things can either help or hinder, depending on how they hit you and, again, more situational stuff. just got to be comf and, like, "intrigue" at the same time, somehow. balance balance
also>DHT cream on clitoris
what the hell X_X